Goal: To help them hear the difference between the "Lazy" sounds (W, Y) and the "Strong" sounds (L, R).
Instruction:
The Characters: Draw a picture of a Sleeping Cat (Lazy sound) and a Weightlifter (Strong sound).
The Game: Tell the child: "When I use my strong tongue, point to the Weightlifter. When I use my lazy lips, point to the Sleeping Cat."
The Words:
Say "Wwww-ed" (Child points to Cat).
Say "Rrrrr-ed" (Child points to Weightlifter).
Say "Yyyy-ellow" (Child points to Cat).
Say "Lllll-ellow" (Child points to Weightlifter).
Goal: To teach the tongue tip to touch the "Alveolar Ridge" (the bumpy bit behind the top teeth).
Instruction:
The Spot: Put a tiny dab of chocolate spread, jam, or peanut butter on the bumpy skin right behind their top front teeth.
The Lick: Ask them to "Lick the spot" with the very tip of their tongue.
The Sound: While their tongue is touching the spot, ask them to make a sound: "La... La... La".
Visual Check: Use a mirror. If you can see the underside of their tongue, they are doing it right!
Goal: To stop the lips from rounding (which makes the 'W' sound).
Instruction:
The Problem: When we say "Wabbit", our lips make a small 'O' circle. We need to break that circle.
The Fix: Ask the child to give you a huge, cheesy smile (showing teeth).
The Roar: Keep the smile frozen! Now try to growl like a tiger: "Grrrrrr".
Why it works: You cannot say "W" if you are smiling. The smile forces the tongue to pull back and do the work.
Goal: To practice the L sound with a wide-open mouth.
Instruction:
Sing "La La La" like an opera singer.
Move to words that start with a wide mouth vowel (Like "Lion", "Lamp", "Large").
Avoid: Don't start with "Little" or "Lemon" as these require more mouth movement. Keep it big and open!
Goal: To practice the 'R' at the end of words (often easier than the start).
Instruction:
Pretend to be pirates.
Practice saying words that end in 'R' by growling the end.
Words: "Ca-rrrr" (Car), "Doo-rrrr" (Door), "Bea-rrrr" (Bear).
Once they master the end R, move to the start R (Red, Run).
Don't Panic on 'R': The 'R' sound is the hardest sound in the English language. It is normal for children to struggle with this until they are 5 or 6 years old. If your child is 3 and says "Wabbit", just model the right word. If they are 7, start these exercises .
Watch the Lips: For 'R' and 'L', the lips should be still or smiling. If the lips move forward (kissy face), they are making a W. Gently touch the corners of their mouth to remind them to smile.
The "Tongue Gym": These sounds need muscle strength. Licking lollipops, licking ice cream cones, or licking excess chocolate off their lips helps build the tongue strength needed for L and R.